tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post8000476358842458070..comments2023-05-29T06:47:55.430-04:00Comments on Mom2MGM: SARAHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15758750654623009878noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post-17576589109635802522013-02-25T01:22:22.404-05:002013-02-25T01:22:22.404-05:00Love you Sarah and so grateful for our friendship ...Love you Sarah and so grateful for our friendship :) (men are the biggest babies for sure haaha) Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13141818848711677898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post-88864171220668968262013-02-24T08:10:50.908-05:002013-02-24T08:10:50.908-05:00@DM's Mommy: Thank you for asking. Today has ...@DM's Mommy: Thank you for asking. Today has started well. I can appreciate what you are saying and what it sounds like you went through. I try to remember each day that we are all just doing the best that we can; myself and my husband included. <br /><br />@Laura: Thank you for posting this. It feels so good to know that I'm not alone in how I feel (even though I'm not proud of feeling this way). I didn't know that about Jason, but now I can see that you know exactly how this feels. Like, the whole "it can't hurt that bad" is so me all the time. It's so rude that I would even question his pain or his honesty with pain but I think it also boils down to men being babies when they are sick/hurting. It can be hard to take it seriously all the time. <br />I'm working on this. Thank you so much for sharing. It made me smile. love you.SARAHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15758750654623009878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post-6827480111240225542013-02-23T22:53:24.230-05:002013-02-23T22:53:24.230-05:00I'm so sorry to hear about Gabe I didn't k...I'm so sorry to hear about Gabe I didn't know. :( I totally understand how you feel like really understand. Jason has back problems (steaming from years ago when he permanently damaged his back at work) He has constant pain and can throw his back out of alignment in a single second of not thinking of how he's moving his body to move or pick things up. How many times has he not been able to pick up/play/ be with the girls because of this is so tiring to me and I also get angry at him for this, not even thinking of him and his pain but I instead find myself thinking how selfish it is of him, that it can't hurt <i>that</i> bad to not be able to pick up and/or play with his babies (I know ridiculous of me to even think that!!) So I understand how you feel. I hate hate being the "single mom" while he's having to lay down and rest on our time off together as a family. But more so I hope that Gabe gets better soon!!! {{{hugs}}} Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13141818848711677898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post-52793780094248841912013-02-23T12:33:50.634-05:002013-02-23T12:33:50.634-05:00I meant Brittany Gibbons blog. Sorry :)I meant Brittany Gibbons blog. Sorry :)DM'sMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18278175142682081691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285999659218872581.post-14059364437422564352013-02-23T12:32:38.495-05:002013-02-23T12:32:38.495-05:00I stumbled upon your blog through the Barefoot Foo...I stumbled upon your blog through the Barefoot Foodie's blog. And I wanted to ask, and not just b/c you mentioned it in this post, but HOW ARE YOU? Seriously, how are you? See, for the last 4-5 yrs I've had to be the one to be the caretaker, sole provider, mother, wife, etc. due to my spouse having Brain Cancer and I too had folks, more often than not, ask how he was. And truth be told I grew resentful of his illness and his reaction to it and it wasn't healthy but I couldn't control it....it just happened. It's hurt my marriage so I'm happy you have your faith, therapy, and your coping so much better than me but seriously: how are you? I know my family asking that sporadically from several states away brightened my day and didn't even know it. Only I was too busy holding things together to stop and answer them. I wish I had. My story may have had a different outcome...who knows. I'm not much of a religious person these days but I will certainly say a prayer for you, your family, and your husband, and I hope you get your answers soon as to what is causing him so much pain. Hang in there. DM'sMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18278175142682081691noreply@blogger.com